Affair?
Besides the obvious, sex. What do you consider to be an affair? Just sexual stimulation? What about mental stimulation? What about emotional support? What about the feeling of being wanted by a man who cares again? What about the feeling of being needed and desired? What about having an intellectual connection? What about that feeling you get just before your partner climaxes? If you hadn't experienced that in a VERY long time and you desired that feeling, would you consider that to be cheating? I know things go both ways especially the bad things but everyone has needs. Yes, I am obviously married. No, I am not going to leave my wife because I do love her in my own way. I know you are going to me a pig or ask how I can be looking for someone outside my marriage if I claim to love her. Well, if all you can be is judgmental, then trying walking in my shoes before you cast the first stone. If you can be non-judgemental and open minded, then I am white, married (duh), and looking to find someone that thinks the same way that I do. If you chose to respond please put your favorite restaurant in the subject line or your response will be deleted. For personal saftey, I will not post my pic here but will exchange with you if you are real and not spam.